Mel, you truly confuse me sometimes...and I hope you don't mind me saying this, but I like to think that I treat other users on this forum in the same way as I would like to be treated myself, and I honestly feel like sometimes you cast very strong opinions and judgements, based on very little information, and that are not really called for? It's not even necessarily the points you raise sometimes, it's the way that you express them. I'm quite a strong character, and quite capable of being selective about what I take on board and what I choose to dismiss, but other users on this forum might be in a more vulnerable position, and might find themselves being impacted upon quite negatively by some of your responses. I hope this hasn't offened you, as that's not my intention!