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If you suffer from an eating disorder now or have in the past, please email Joanna for a free telephone consultation.

 joanna@poppink.com

Eating Disorder Recovery
Joanna Poppink, MFT
Eating Disorder Recovery Psychotherapist
serving Arizona, California, Florida, Oregon and Utah.
All appointments are virtual.


Identity can bloom in surprising ways.
Your identity blooms like a flower. Patience, fortitude, maybe a prickly defense, time and attention: you’ll bloom.

Finding one's true identity is a deeply personal and introspective journey that can take time and self-reflection. Here are seven steps you can take to explore and discover your true identity:

1.          Self-reflection: Take the time to reflect on your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and values. Ask yourself meaningful questions about who you are, what matters to you, and what brings you joy and fulfillment. Consider your strengths, passions, and aspirations.

2.          Explore your interests: Engage in activities, hobbies, and experiences that resonate with you. Trying new things can help you uncover hidden passions and talents, and give you a sense of what truly resonates with your authentic self.

3.          Embrace your uniqueness: Recognize that your true identity is unique and individual to you. Embrace your quirks, strengths, and weaknesses, and appreciate the qualities that make you who you are.

4.          Seek self-awareness: Cultivate self-awareness by paying attention to your thoughts, emotions, and reactions in different situations. This can help you better understand yourself and your true desires.

5.          Seek new perspectives: Engage in conversations with diverse individuals, read books, listen to podcasts, or attend workshops that explore different perspectives and ideas. This can broaden your understanding of the world and help you shape your own identity.

6.          Challenge societal expectations: Reflect on societal norms and expectations that may have influenced your self-perception. Consider whether these align with your true values and beliefs. It's important to recognize and embrace your own authentic identity, rather than conforming to external pressures.

7.          Practice self-acceptance and self-love: Embrace self-acceptance and love yourself unconditionally. Recognize that your identity may evolve over time, and that's okay. Embrace the journey of self-discovery and be kind to yourself throughout the process.

Remember, finding your true identity is not a destination but a continuous process. Be patient with yourself, trust your instincts, and allow yourself the freedom to grow and evolve as you discover more about who you truly are. Working with a psychotherapist who understands adult development can be helpful.

Joanna Poppink, MFT, is a psychotherapist in private practice specializing in eating disorder recovery and adult development.

She is licensed in CA, AZ, OR, FL, UT. Author of Book: Healing Your Hungry Heart: recovering from your eating disorder

Appointments are virtual.

https://www.eatingdisorderrecovery.net

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ecommended books for exploring your true identity

There are numerous books that can provide valuable insights and guidance in exploring your true identity. Here are some highly regarded books that tackle this topic:

1. "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor E. Frankl: This profound book explores the quest for meaning and purpose in life. Frankl, a Holocaust survivor and psychiatrist, shares his experiences and insights on how finding meaning can help individuals discover their true identity.

2. "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho: A timeless novel that follows the journey of a young shepherd named Santiago as he seeks his personal legend. Through a series of encounters and experiences, the book delves into themes of self-discovery, following one's dreams, and finding one's true purpose.

3. "The Four Agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz: This book presents four principles for personal freedom and self-mastery. It explores how limiting beliefs and societal conditioning can hinder one's true identity and provides guidance on breaking free from these constraints.

4. "Daring Greatly" by Brené Brown: Brené Brown, a renowned researcher and storyteller, explores the concept of vulnerability and its impact on personal growth. The book encourages readers to embrace vulnerability, shed their armor, and cultivate authenticity to live a more fulfilling and authentic life.

5. "The Road Less Traveled" by M. Scott Peck: Peck combines psychology and spirituality to explore the journey of personal growth and self-discovery. The book addresses topics such as self-discipline, love, and the importance of facing and embracing challenges in order to find one's true self.

6. "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle: Tolle's book emphasizes the impo7. "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain: For those who identify as introverts, this book provides an exploration of introversion and the strengths associated with it. It delves into the societal expectations and pressures that can impact one's identity and offers insights on embracing one's true nature. 

7. "Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" by Susan Cain: For those who identify as introverts, this book provides an exploration of introversion and the strengths associated with it. It delves into the societal expectations and pressures that can impact one's identity and offers insights on embracing one's true nature.





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