Thanks Joanna I know there are plenty of challenges and things still to overcome, but my life is starting to gather a bit of shape & direction now. I'm planning a big career change, and I'm 4 weeks into a degree course (that I need to facilitate the change), most of it is distance learning (to fit in with the children), but I have been attending tutorials & day schools at the weekends and enjoying the social side as well as the academic, it's good!