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Be a Trailblazer: Part 4 on Your Path to Joy

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Choices exist in this world. Do you know what your choices are? Your path beckons.*

First is your choice to either keep living as you are living or move toward freedom and change.

If you continue to follow your routine in a life that is unhappy, neglect your yearning and fulfill the expectations of others you will maintain your status quo and gradually feel worse. If you can’t find your way to change you may try to distract yourself with activities and substances or temporary and short-lived thrills. When you emerge, you see nothing improved and your life may have disintegrated more during your absence. 

If you move to free yourself, you disrupt the known system of your life. You might say that requires courage, perhaps more than you think you have. Yet when you see the inevitable outcome of how you have been living you might say a kind of courage is required to live a desperate life that only brings more pain. That’s the view of self-sacrifice. If you choose self-sacrifice, let it be a true choice and not something you wander into without appreciating the cost.

 Your desire for joy points to a different path.

Joy is the gladness of being who you are, how you are and how you live. Acting in a challenging role, litigating a difficult case, painting a huge canvas for a gallery show, writing a podcast script for deadline, struggling with morning sickness, running with pain in your side and gasping for breath in a marathon, discovering new clues about flight or biology or engineering from studying Leonardo da Vinci, all involve heavy effort, sweat and frustration. But if these activities are allied with your passion, you feel joy. You may be dissatisfied with your results yet be immensely alive in your experience and eager to try again.

When you reach your point of departure, when your wings are dry, you are ready to explore. You explore, making the unknown more visible. In that visibility will emerge your path to joy.

Complete Listing of Path to Joy

Part One:  Welcome and Introduction

Part Two:   New Begins with End of Old

Part Three: Rally Yourself to Move Forward

Part Four:   Be a Trailblazer

Part Five:   Your Action Steps

Part Six:      Stumbling Block Alert

Psychotherapy with Joanna



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JoannaPoppink Never too late or too early to start your recovery. Now is the best time, the only time. Read: Healing Your Hungry… https://t.co/WpFJWUHVzP
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JoannaPoppink Can't trust yourself with food? Make small daily non food related task commitments, and keep them. Build your self… https://t.co/aRHxYTU9V7
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JoannaPoppink Symptoms are not character flaws. Read: Healing Your Hungry Heart: Recovering from Your Eating Disorder https://t.co/zzzkbdvzQD via @amazon
JoannaPoppink From Jeffrey Sachs who I have long admired. The American political system has not been focused on how to end the ep… https://t.co/jTQV89I4sq
JoannaPoppink Eating Disorders: More than about eating and appearance. A reminder that symptoms are not character flaws. https://t.co/RC90jcAJz8

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